Wednesday, April 20, 2005

Friends Are Meant To Be Temporary

You ever noticed that having friends is sometimes more a hassle than you wish. You have to deal with attitudes, no it alls, people who always seem angry, those that are jealous of you for stupid reasons, ones that are not really compatible with at all, and the most obvious those that seem like they really never want to be friends with you.

If you are a truly nice person when it comes to friends count yourself as forever screwed. People will call themselves your friend as long as they are getting something from you the moment that is reversed or just simply stops, they disappear. And never ask one friend to help you do something for another you will get all kinds of grief.

To simply put it your best bet is to never try to hang onto friends just live your life from friend to friend never expecting to have one for more than 3 five years tops. Trying to hang onto friends will cost you more than you are willing to spend financially and emotionally.

Don’t believe me go over you life and count every friend you have had from as early as you can remember to now. Then count all the friends you have now. Trust me the numbers wont be the same. Then count the number of friends that you have had for more than 6 years I mean these are people that you talk to on a regular basis, out side of school. The numbers get smaller and smaller.

Here is what you do just hang out with people if your friends have a problem with it then Oh well to bad. Life is life and they will disappear soon anyway and you will look back and see it was a blessing.